Books + Videos

Divorce (General)

Ahrons, Constance, The Good Divorce: Keeping your Family Together while your Marriage Comes Apart (1998)

Eddy, Bill, BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns (2014)

Riss, S. & Sockwel, J., The Optimist’s Guide to Divorce: How to Get Through Your Breakup and Create a New Life You Love (2016)

Trafford, Abigail, Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life (3d ed. 2014)

Children and Parenting Plans

Boyan, Susan, Cooperative Parenting and Divorce: Shielding Your Child From Conflict (2003)

Brown, M. & Brown, L., Dinosaurs Divorce (Dino Life Guides) (1988)

Bruno, Ellen, Split: A Film for Kids of Divorce (and their Parents) (2013) (VIDEO)

Emery, Robert, The Truth About Children and Divorce: Dealing with the Emotions So You and Your Children Can Thrive (2006)

Emery, Robert, Two Homes, One Childhood: A Parenting Plan to Last a Lifetime (2016)

McBride, Jean, Talking to Children About Divorce: A Parent’s Guide to Healthy Communication at Each Stage of Divorce (2016)

Neuman, M. & Romanwoski, P., Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way (1999)

Stern, Z. & Stern, E., Divorce Is Not the End of the World: Zoe’s and Evan’s Coping Guide for Kids (2008)

Personality Disorders and Divorce

Eddy, B. & Kreger, R., Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (2011)

Kreisman, J. & Straus, H., I Hate You–Don’t Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality (2010)

Kronenfeld, Elliott, Couples by Intention: Creating and Cultivating Relationships That Matter (2018)

Mason, P. & Kreger, R., Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder (2010)

McBride, Karyl, Will I Ever Be Free of You?: How to Navigate a High-Conflict Divorce from a Narcissist and Heal Your Family (2016)

Miklowitz, David, The Bipolar Disorder Survival Guide: What You and Your Family Need to Know (2nd ed. 2011)

Morningstar, Dana, Out of the Fog: Moving from Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse (2017)

Morton, Kati, Gaslighting (VIDEO)

Morton, Kati, Emotional Abuse: Five Must-Know Signs (VIDEO)

Movies (Some Light, Some Heavy)

A Separation (2011) (Subtitled) [NY Times Review]
Intolerable Cruelty (2003) [NY Times Review]
It’s Complicated (2009) [NY Times Review]
Kramer vs Kramer (1979) [NY Times Review]
Scenes from a Marriage (1974) [Roger Ebert]
Take This Waltz (2011) [NY Times Review]
The Break-Up (2006) [NY Times Review]
The Broken Circle Breakdown (2012) (Subtitled) [NY Times Review]
The Past (2012) (Subtitled) [NY Times Review]
The Squid and the Whale (2005) [NY Times Review]
The War of the Roses (1989) [NY Times Review]
Under the Tuscan Sun (2003)[NY Times Review]
What Maisie Knew (2013) [NY Times Review]